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Nov 07
2009

Ask a Lawyer: Pregnant from affair

Posted by Dads Divorce in MO , Infidelity , Ask A Lawyer

Question:

I'm pregnant from an affair that I had. All the assets in the marriage (house, cars, furniture) came from my income or savings; most prior to the marriage. We have only been married 18 months. He accumulated $27,000 in student loans prior to our marriage while I had $3,000. We consolidated the loans after we graduated and married. Can he stick me with half his college debt?

Answer:

First let me advise you that I am not licensed in Missouri. Since laws vary from state to state you should also seek the advice of counsel in your state. When dividing property the court usually puts all assets and debts into the marital pot and divides in half. This includes premarital assets. However, since your marriage is relatively short the court will likely look at the premarital assets/debts and consider who had what at the time of the marriage. The goal is usually to put you both back where you started. The fact that you consolidated your debts is problematic. However, you can still argue that Husband should pay the majority of that debt. The problem will be in removing your name from the obligation. You need to find out if the loan can be refinanced and your name removed. Not only do you want the court to order that he pay but that he remove your name from the liability .
Oct 05
2009

Ask A Lawyer: How Do I Plan For a Divorce?

Posted by pmcmahon in Legal Strategy , Iraq , Infidelity , Erik Carter , Cordell Cordell, PC , Ask A Lawyer

Question:

I've been Iraq for almost two years now, and have been married for 23 years as of this month.  I just found out that my wife has been cheating on me, but she does not know that I know the truth. What advice can you give me on how to plan for a divorce settlement?

 

 

 

 

Aug 06
2009

Ask a Lawyer: Finances and assets

Posted by Dads Divorce in Maintenance , Maintenance , LA , Infidelity , consent , Child Support , Ask A Lawyer , alimony , affair

Question:

I recently built a new home with my ex-wife to be and we currently owe $155,000.00 or less. The home was appraised for over $250,000.00 six months ago. All furniture and appliances are paid for and still in mint condition. My question is if I allow her to keep everything but my clothes and my vehicle(she has a vehicle also) after committing adultery will still likely be responsible for spousal support and the same amount of child support? Also we signed papers agreeing to 7 & 7 custody on my first week I was stopped by local authorities and my vehicle was searched and towed due to no proof of insurance. I was not charged with anything, however; she has supposedly had custody changed so that i only get supervised visitation. She and her mother are attempting to convince local authorities that I am a drug dealer and they (my previous in-laws) make over one million dollars a year so they are listened to. I am not worried about getting into any trouble because the are false accusations, but I am concerned about her changing custody agreement. I know she is working for her mother and I am sure that they will try to say she makes very little money. Any suggestions? I was trying not to fight about anything and just use one lawyer but I am getting the bad end of the deal. Is adultery worth me attempting to prove? Should I just accept I have no chance of coming out with my clothes?

Answer:

Allow me to preface my answer to your question with the disclaimer that I am not licensed to practice law in the state of Louisiana. It sounds like you need to get a lawyer. Nothing should be changed in an agreed Order without your consent. Some states find adultery is grounds to get more property or to argue against spousal support.
Jun 15
2009

Ask A Lawyer: Does Infidelity Affect Alimony Payments?

Posted by pmcmahon in Richard Coffee , Infidelity , GA , Cordell Cordell, PC , Ask A Lawyer , alimony , Affairs

Question:

I found emails and pictures (non-explicit) that my wife sent to another man. All of them said I love you, or you have my heart and soul. I also have cell phone logs of her talking to this man all day while I was at work. She owns a home business that is fully financed by my job. I also found an explicit picture he sent her.

Although I can't actually prove she has slept with him, does infidelity affect how much alimony I will have to pay her in the state of Georgia?

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