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Oct 27, 2011

domestic violence mythsBy Julie Garrison

Special to DadsDivorce.com

It is uninformed attitudes like the ones discussed in my previous divorce article that have pigeonholed domestic violence as a women's issue only and ignores mens rights.

Research shows women in their 20s and 30s are statistically more likely to commit violence against men than their mothers did.

One of the reasons for this demographical age difference is that younger women have learned from their mothers, teachers, other mentors and role models that men are the abusers and women are (always) the victims. 

They have also been taught that men can cause physical injury and – absent a weapon – women can't because they are physically smaller and weaker. Cultural norms are more tolerant of assaults by women on their partners.

But, how many shelters for battered men have you heard about or seen? Most would say none.

The Florida State University Law Review had this to say about women and domestic violence:


Mar 11, 2010

Matt Allen, editor of DadsDivorce.com, speaks with Kenneth Pangborn about helping those who have been wrongly accused in domestic cases.

He is the founder of The A-Team, a group made up of trial consultants, lawyers, psychologists, doctors and investigators that help those wrongly accused of child abuse, domestic violence and marital rape, among other crimes.

 

 


Aug 05, 2009

Question:

The mother of my fiance's 8 year old daughter wants to live with us. The mother is violent to her boyfriends and has the cops called to her residence frequently. The mother always leaves the child with neighbors or family members. We have officers who can testify to the types of calls they receive from the residence. We would like to go to court and try to prove Substantial Change In Circumstances. The mother has had to visit a mental facility to evaluate her. She is unstable and has threatened us repatedly to keep the child from us on the weekends. What can we do to help our case?

Answer:

I am not licensed in the State of Tenn and therefore cannot answer your question specifically to the laws of that State. The police involvement solves one of the more difficult aspects of many domestic relations cases: proof. Often the important evidence in family law occurs behind closed doors and the case hinges on "he said against she said" testimony. If you have neutral third parties that have documented incidents and can prove your case, you are in a very good position. Get the police records and mental health records (if possible) of the mother. Find out the name of the boyfriends that have been involved in the disturbances as they may be willing to testify against the mother. The final element that you will want to show is how the mother's actions in the home have harmed the child. Look at school records and consider retaining a psychological expert to test and interview the child.

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