Divorce Advice for Men | Fathers Rights Divorce | Child Custody

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My son has two children with his ex-girlfriend, and they have been separated for more than 3 years. My son technically has joint custody of the kids, but he never sees them. His ex-girlfriend bars me from seeing my grandkids when I visit the city they live in; I travel there every year to see my family who also lives in the area. She has told the kids that I’m dead and that’s why they don’t see me. Is there anything I can do legally about this? Do grandparents have any rights to see their grandchildren following a divorce?
 

Question:

My daughter is in a state college and I am paying one-third of her tuition and off-campus living expenses, in addition to my child support order. She is 20 years old and not progressing academically in this school towards her goal of going to nursing school. So I want her to switch to a community college since she is retaking classes until she gets a better GPA. I'm looking at less debt for her later, but she is refusing to consider it. Since she lives in an apartment, and not with her mother, if I emancipate her at 21, will I still be responsible to pay for her living expenses and college tuition?

Question:

I have the option of taking a lump sum payout from my employer or a monthly pension when I retire. I assume that if I took a monthly pension, child support payments would be based on that payout plan. But if I take a lump sum buyout, what criteria does the court use to determine future child support payments?

Question:

How long is a temporary divorce order by the court before it becomes final?

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My husband was married before and adopted his ex-wife’s son. Now the son wants nothing to do with him. Can we have the adoption overturned?