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Dads Divorce - Free custody and alimony advice for men and fathers.

Providing essential divorce, alimony, custody and support information and resources to men at any stage of divorce.
Tags >> child decision
Nov 29
2009

Ask a Divorce Lawyer: Does the age of my child determine a custody decision?

Posted by Matt Allen in joint custody , Erica Christian , Cordell Cordell, PC , child decision , Ask A Lawyer

Question: My 16-year-old daughter no longer wants to visit with her father. Can she just tell him she does not want to come back, and do that with no recourse? We share joint legal and physical custody. My daughter will be 17 in 30 days; will that change anything?

 

Oct 05
2005

Ask a Lawyer: What is the age a child can decide to live with the noncustodial parent

Posted by Dads Divorce in Visitation , TX , Parenting , custody , custody , child decision , Ask A Lawyer

Question:

If there are no serious issues between divorced parents, can a child just decide that they want to live with their noncustodial parent, even if the parent who has custody does not want it ? If so, what is the age ?(In Texas) Thank you, Gina

Answer:

I cannot answer your questions specifically to the laws of Texas as I am not licensed in that State. It is possible that there is a specific statute in your State that provides for an age for a child to determine or provide impute into the custody decision. Generally, a child can testify when they are of sufficient maturity to understand and take the oath to testify truthfully. However, the child's wishes are only one factor in my jurisdiction that the judge uses to determine the best interest of the child and the custody arrangements. Usually by 12 years old a child can testify, but the court will not give much weight to his choice. As the child gets older his wishes carry more weight. By fifteen or sixteen if the child is of general maturity and has logical reasons for changing the custody the court will often abide by the child's wishes.