Divorce Advice for Men | Fathers Rights Divorce | Child Custody

Question:

My child support laws question deals with having multiple cases open in multiple states.

My ex-wife currently has two child support cases for child support in two different states. Can she do that?

Question:

My ex-wife is a paralegal in the county where my child support case is pending.

She knows all the judges and court staff and even enters the courtroom through the back doors by the judge's chambers - not through the front doors like the rest of us.

Is this enough to get a change of venue?

Question: Regarding changing venues. My divorce was finalized in Oregon in 2002. I was awarded sole custody and moved to South Carolina and remarried. My children are now 15 (boy) and 13 (girl) years old and only see their father 49 days each summer, which is his choice. 

The children feel that they are getting of age where they should have a say as to whether they should have to go to Oregon (different county than the divorce) every summer. I want the kids to remain having a good relationship with their father; however, as they grow older, they are pulling away and feel forced by the Oregon courts to keep this schedule until they are 18 years old. 

What is the benefit of our changing venue to South Carolina? Would the court system allow teenagers more say?