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Question:

I am trying to proceed pro se in my divorce and represent myself, but I am having a difficult time filling out the divorce papers.

My local court gave me a packet that asks for all sorts of information I do not know.

Do I really have to fill out all these forms, such as the Financial Affidavit for Dissolution Of Marriage? How do I properly submit the paperwork if I don't know most of the information?

Question:

I need to know divorce court rules for issuing subpoenas and witness lists as I am handling my divorce pro se.

I am compiling my list of witnesses. Do I have to give this list to my wife's divorce lawyer before trial or can I just have the witnesses show up?

Also, how do I issue a subpoena to certain members of her family that I want to request appear in court?

Question:

My wife and I are negotiating our uncontested divorce pro se and trying to reach a divorce settlement.

In lieu of child support payments, we agree that I would continue to pay off a community-property debt we incurred while married.

How do we incorporate our waiving of child support into our divorce settlement?

Question:

Can I modify the divorce decree if I signed the papers without fully realizing the ramifications of some of the court orders?

I went through my divorce pro se, and at the time I didn't realize how screwed I was when I signed the divorce decree that apparently doesn't allow me to claim any dependents. This has resulted in me owing thousands of dollars on my taxes.

Can I have the decree re-negotiated?

Question:

I am looking for advice on divorce on the rules of evidence regarding cell phone records.

I believe my wife has been cheating on me and would like to present evidence of this in divorce court.

So can I subpoena my wife's cell phone records?