Divorce Advice for Men | Fathers Rights Divorce | Child Custody

My brother is going through a divorce. His wife is bound and determined to take him to court and put on a show with a parade of "witnesses" to publicly humiliate him with claims of an affair. She is actually exacting a type of extortion on my parents and my brother to get him to agree to take all the bills and sell his horses and personal property to give her more money OR ELSE she will take him to court where he will surely lose and be punished by having to pay everything! It's hard to stand up to something when you don't really know how things work in our court system. I understand that affairs or claims of affairs can not adversely affect custody unless it can be shown that it interferes with the ability to parent. But, his soon-to-be-ex-wife wants to saddle him with all the debts and lawyers' fees as a just punishment. And believe me, she could put on quite a show... I think she is a professional victim! She makes more money than he does, and neither one of them makes more than 45,000. Do you have any words of wisdom?

My wife is disabled and refuses to go to work. She is taking some college courses just to have something to do. Her parents pay ALL her household bills, have given her a house and a car; her parents pay her car insurance as well. Her parents also own a grocery store and provide her with all food and necessities to clean the house. If there is a problem in the home her parents pay for all repairs. We have been seperated for 6 months and she rarely lets me speak to our daughter even though I call every single night. She has called my work and told lies about my having an affair and not sending her any money. I have the written signed statements from the people she spoke to about this and she called back the same day admitting that what she said earlier was a lie. She has been harrassing my friends and co-workers with phone calls. Her phone bill, if subpeonaed will verify this. She went to the casino in January and won almost $500. When she told me about it she immediately asked me to send her $100 because she didn't have any money. I have proof from Wells Fargo Bank and Discover card that she took out a credit card in her name but gave them my checking account number to have the payments made by me. She was never and has never been granted access to this checking account. I have the written proof from Discover that she did this. All told $322.23 was deducted from my checking account between December 1 and January 15. I have bank statements to attest to this. Luckily, my bank refunded all the money back to my account. Based on this info what are the chances of my getting primary or sole custody of my daughter?