Divorce Advice for Men | Fathers Rights Divorce | Child Custody

Question:

I recently got a copy of my children's school records and found out that my ex-wife listed her boyfriend as their father on all forms. We have court coming up soon for a modification of our current order and contempt for her violating the order as well. Can I file contempt over this, and if so, on what grounds? Would this be parental interference?

I am tired of dealing with her parental alienation and this has taken it to another level in providing false information on official documents. She has sole custody.

Question: Recently, custody was awarded to my wife. I was not present at the hearing due to the fact I was unaware of the date. 

After reviewing the courts facts of the case, I know she and her attorney were making tons of false statements, including the biggest lie about not having a boyfriend when in fact she not only has a boyfriend, but the guy is living with her and my children! 

How can I get this decision overturned or alert the court that my ex is blatantly lying? Is it too late to do this?

Question: My divorce was final in June of 2009. I was ordered to pay my ex wife $1,500 per month in transitional spousal support and $501 per month in child support. 

Since July of 2009, my ex wife has been cohabitating with her boyfriend. Since she is now cohabitating intimately with her boyfriend, would I have a case for reducing or eliminating the spousal support? 

After paying the monthly spousal and child support, I am only left with about $200-$300 of my net pay. This has left me effectively homeless, barring the good graces of a few friends and family.

Question: I've been divorced for 15 years and am paying alimony to my ex wife of $200 per week with no end in sight. Both of our child are grown and out of the house. 

She now has a boyfriend who has moved in with her. Is there anyway to get this amount reduced or even done away with all together? 

Question: My ex wife has primary physical custody of our three children all under 8 years old. We share legal custody. 

She has a history of drug use and I have reason to believe that she, along with her live-in boyfriend, is using marijuana again. 

Can I have her drug tested? How do I get the court involved in this?