Divorce Advice for Men | Fathers Rights Divorce | Child Custody

Question:

I need marriage separation advice on handling a separation agreement.

We signed a separation agreement after my wife left the marital home. We are mortgage partners on various properties that we both had money deposited into accounts to cover the mortgages and taxes on each property.

She recently sent me a notarized agreement that she was no longer going to contribute to our mortgages.

I cannot afford this on my own and am looking for marriage separation advice on what my legal recourse is?

Question:

In the draft of my divorce decree under "Child Support" it states that I'm ordered to pay my ex-wife child support until my children: graduate from high school, marry, enter the armed forces, pass away, or disabilities are otherwise removed. 

It then states thereafter I am to pay my ex child support for indemnity. I'm not sure what this means. Please advise on child support laws.

Question:

I know verbal agreements to pay a different child support amount usually do not hold up in court, but what if the couple had a written and notarized agreement?

As my income decreased over the years, my ex-wife and I agreed that I would pay her a lower amount of child support than what the court ordered. I have a notarized agreement documenting her acceptance of less child support.

Now she claims I owe her back child support since I did not pay the full court-ordered amount.

Will the notarized agreement allowing me to pay less child support hold up in court or am I on the hook for child support arrears?

Question:

Do divorce laws allow for an agreed upon settlement agreement to be entered as the decree if my wife is delaying the process?

We reached a divorce settlement months ago, but she is now unwilling to transmit the divorce papers to court in order to finalize the divorce.

What legal status does this agreement have until it is signed off by the judge? Can I just submit the paperwork rather than waiting on her divorce lawyer?

Question:

My wife and I are disagreeing about when we should have kids. We are recently married and I do not want kids yet. She says she understands but I am not sure she will stop trying to get pregnant.

Is it possible for both of us to sign a binding, legal agreement that if she does get pregnant that we would give the baby up for adoption?