Divorce Advice for Men | Fathers Rights Divorce | Child Custody

Question:

I would like to request a child support modification given my ex-wife's increase in income, but I am concerned that my increased amount of parenting time will not be taken into effect because it has not been entered as a court order.

I have my child with me approximately 70 percent of the time per a verbal agreement my ex-wife and I have that differs from the original child custody order of 50-50 parenting time.

If I request to modify child support, can my ex-wife then fight me to return to the original 50-50 court-ordered custody schedule? I would like to pay less child support but not if it means risking time with my child.

Question:

At the time of the divorce no child support was awarded to either party. However, my ex-wife's earnings have significantly increased in the years since our divorce.

I am considering requesting child support from her. Is this possible if no child support was awarded in our divorce?

Question:

I recently lost my job and filed motions to modify alimony and child support. My ex-wife's divorce attorney sent me a notice to produce at the hearing a statement showing the value of my 401k.

Why would her lawyer want to know the current value? Can she go after that in some way? I owe her thousands of dollars in attorney fees so is that it?

Question:

My girlfriend has a morality clause in her divorce decree that no member of the opposite sex that she is romantically involved with my spend the night in the same dwelling as her children.

Is there any way to get around this clause prohibiting me from staying the night or vacationing when her children are around?

Question:

I pay alimony, but can no longer afford the payments due to a significant reduction in income. The only money I have access to is my IRA.

I am filing for an alimony modification and am concerned about protecting my IRA.

Can the court order a judgment against my IRA in order for me to continue paying alimony?