Divorce Advice for Men | Fathers Rights Divorce | Child Custody

Question:

My temporary orders during my divorce force me to pay exorbitant child support costs along with my living expenses and the utility bills for the house she got to stay in.

These bills are almost bankrupting me and our divorce isn't even final! Am I obligated to keep paying these bills or can I modify temporary orders before they become final divorce orders and I'm left broke?

Question:

My question is about child support and paternity laws.

Paternity was established and I have been deemed the father of a son I did not know about for many years. I have also been ordered to pay child support.

I have two children with my current wife and this recent child support order is too high to properly care for my current family and the son I did not know about until last year.

What can I do to modify child support so that I can protect my current family from financial ruin?

Question:

Can I get my alimony payments modified if my wife is pregnant with another child?

I pay her monthly alimony, but since she is pregnant with another man's child I don't feel that I should have to pay her when the money will be spent on a child that is not mine.

Is my ex-wife having another child reason enough for an alimony modification?

Question:

I tried to modify child support after I lost my job, but the judge denied it saying I lost my job based on my own conduct, which is untrue because I'm collecting unemployment.

I then tried another child support modification based on the fact that my health insurance increased significantly. However, the judge found that I have not raised any change in circumstances. It appears because this judge incorrectly thinks I lost my job based on my own conduct that I cannot get child support modified for any reason.

I have just finally found another job, but it pays significantly less, so I would again like to pursue a support modification.

What must I do so that any time I go in to court for a change in circumstance modification, the judge will not keep going back to his decision that I lost my first job based on my behavior?

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My divorce question is about a new modification and its effects on other parts of the decree that have been left untouched.

Our divorce decree says that my ex-wife and I will pay 50% of our child's health care costs. She has repeatedly failed to pay her full share of the monthly costs.

We went through a child custody modification last year where the visitation schedule was modified, though no other parts of the decree were.

Since a modification to the decree was previously made, does this effect all other parts of the divorce decree? So if she owes me financial support, am I able to go after her for reimbursement or is everything, including owed support, lost because there has already been a modification?