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divorce attorney Jill DuffyQuestion:

Several years ago I got a notice from Child Support Enforcement that my monthly support payments were going to be reduced. Ten years later I was informed that this reduction did not take place and I owe thousands of dollars in back child support.

I went to court to find out why the reduction was not entered and neither the courts nor the Child Support Enforcement department had an answer.

Can I sue them for negligence since their error is costing me thousands of dollars?


Suing the state or one of its agencies may not be your best course of action. Most states and state agencies have sovereign immunity.

Sovereign immunity prevents the states or federal government from being sued, unless they give permission to be sued (such as in the case of an intentional wrongful act committed by a state employee). You may not be able to sue the State of North Carolina or the Child Support Enforcement department for negligence.

A simpler course of action may to be to request a hearing with the judge regarding your arrearages. If you can produce a copy of the notice you were provided that your support was to be reduced, they may be able to retroactively reduce your support or waive your arrearages because you reasonably relied upon the information they gave you.

If you no longer have a copy of that notice, you should request a copy of your entire child support file from the Child Support Enforcement department.

You should contact an attorney who is licensed in your jurisdiction to further discuss the specifics of your situation. Cordell & Cordell does represent men in divorce nationwide. Thank you for submitting your question.

Jill A. Duffy is an Associate Attorney in the Troy, Mich., office of Cordell & Cordell. She is licensed to practice in the state of Michigan. Ms. Duffy received her BA in Psychology and Spanish and graduated Magna Cum Laude from Oakland University. She received her Juris Doctor from Michigan State University College of Law and graduated Magna Cum Laude.

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driving for a living since 1975, child support in Montgomery county won't allow me to drive my cab to work
written by LeRoy Bailey Jr., April 28, 2013
Hello, I have some rear child support payments due, for my 23 year old son, who lives in Montgomery County, Maryland Child Support has refused to grant me a work (only) drivers license so that the monthly payments of $209.00 can be made (again) I have been out of work since Nov. 2012 and have lost (3) job offers for employment (driving jobs) and now i have been arrested twice ???? I wish i could sue them ???? Can u help me (pls)
written by Alysia Mayhut, October 09, 2013
The fact this happened in North Carolina is not a surprise to me. The NC child support agency screwed my child out of thousands of dollars of support over the years due to common errors. When I called the agency I was ignored. I had to raise hell to get a proper support order. Now that my child is 17teen he will finial get the support he should have gotten from day one. The NC agency is unprofessional. They must lack common math skills and common legal skills that you would think one must have in order to perform the jobs they do. FYI: If you have an x in the military you need to demand a review of the case because in 1990 a law was passed counting BAH and other pay in a support and in 2013 (over 23 years) after the law was passed. The workers still go by the old pre 1990 law.
written by Alysia Mayhut, November 30, 2013
The child support agency will not give you your complete file unless you have a court order but you can get the basic file and you can also get the name of the person that worked on your case at the time the review was made. This should help you get started on working the issues out. Again, never trust the agency to be professional always double check their work and do not take a non-reply as an answer. Demand an answer and if the case worker is disrespectable go over him/her head until you get someone to address your concerns.
written by David W Finney Jr, July 25, 2014
I do not have a comment but I do have a question.

My wife and the State of WA filed for CS in 1971 or 1972 via an Intrastate Petition with the IA Courts which I won because my wife would not respond to my responses to her allegations.

In 1973 the State of IA awarded a lady I lived with a common law divorce. As stated in the previous paragraph, I was legally married to someone else and the lady who got the "dissolution of marriage" in IA knew my wife and in fact had interacted with my wife socially on a personal basis. The IA Court ordered CS based upon the divorce.

In 1987 the IA Court filed an Intrastate petition for Back CS in the amount of $14,000+ and Current CS with the KS Court where I lived. The KS Court ruled I owed less than $7,000 back CS and Current CS. IA did not appeal the KS Court ruling.

In 1998, (not sure of the date), I contacted the KS Courts to find out how much more I owed. Their response was to return 6 of the many KPERS Retirement checks they took by law and to advise me that I had satisfied the KS Court's order.

But, in 2001, IA renewed its collection efforts and have been taking money from me ever since.

The payment records show that I have paid well over $14,000, (more like $21,000), but what I am more concerned with the legal aspects of this case.

Should not a Court order be illegal and unenforceable if it did not follow proper procedure to begin with. If I was legally married to someone else would not a Dissolution of Marriage that does not apply to my legal wife be illegal and unenforceable, including a CS Order. Isn't that what the Rules of Civil Procedure are all about?

I have not been able to get anyone to assist me or to tell me anything that I could do to get this issue resolved. Do you know anyone who would help? Is there anyone out there who will help me ensure they do the right thing by me... I am on a fixed income...
written by Robert Harrison, September 30, 2014
I need an attorney. I have been trying to get a support case closed. I have filled out and mailed the affidavit for termination of support and mailed it to them. The first time they mailed it back saying she lived in a different county, so I got another money order and sent it back. They sent it back again saying she lives in the county where I sent it the first time. So I went back got another money order and sent it back again. I noticed each time they sent it back the amount on these money orders was always a few dollars more. This went on four times. I was getting angry, so I called them to see what the problem was. Couldn't get a straight answer from anyone. I told them that I have been paying on her for two years now, she's out of school, didn't go to college, has her own job, and now has her own child. She says I should have done this two years ago and I said what about all the money I have paid in the last two years, will I get that back as overpayment, and she says no that I would have to go to court for that. It's been a month now,I get a new letter saying that the sheriff's dept couldn't get the notice served, that she was going to personally mail it to her. I feel I'm getting the run around here all over money. It's like they will not terminate the order they just keep collecting. This government system is a joke. I just want fair treatment. And I feel as if they are violating my rights as a citizen. If someone can help I could use it. I want the overpayment of support back and I want the case terminated. Thank you
written by Robert Harrison, September 30, 2014
My email is and my number is 5736313287 if an attorney can help.
written by Patricia Jackson, December 01, 2014
I have a question. My husband and I appeared in court on September 19,2014, In Alabama. the case was dismissed. Order...NCP stated that he was never served and unaware of this case. All parties are resident of Georgia including the child. Case transferred to Georgia. State of Alabama Dismissed as party. The department of human resources child support enforcement sent us a release of lien and, a check of 115.00. Can My husband sue the dept of human resources in the state of Alabama for the balance of 2800.00 that they owe.
Can you sue New Jersey Child Support For Cruel and Unusual Treatment
written by George Curington, December 04, 2014
I am legally obligated to pay support payments to my ex wife for our two daughters. Now they are both completely independent, have graduated from college, ages 26 and 28. The oldest, works full times and takes care of her self, though she still lives at her moms home. I have always payed my support payments until this past June. Last year I was diagnosed with cancer and had to start cancel treatments in order to save my life. As a result, this past june I was laid off work. Because of the extensive cancer treatments which included, chemotherapy, radiationtherapy and 3 surgeries I was not able to even look for a new job until I completely recovered. During that time, after June, I had only enough money to pay the medical co payment and my utilty bills from month to month. The NJ childsupport probation department constantly hassled me for money, threatened to take me to court, to put me in jail, to take my personal possesions while I went thru all of the cancer treatments and during the recovery process. I tried to explain to NJ probation my current predicament. They asked for various forms of proof. I gave them all the surgeon notes, doctor notes .. everything they needed to show them that I COULD NOT WORK; I could barely freaking walk and suffered from severe side effects of Chemotherapy not to mentioned the actual surgeries. I could not leave my apartment for more than a few hours a day. Yet they continued to hassle me and make my life miserable on top of how miserable it already was from the cancer. I struggled thru the whole summer trying to recover enough to be able to go out and look for a job. Finally, this november, I decided I was recovered enough to try and find a new job. I had just enough money left in my bank account to last me long enough, hopefully, to find a new job. Then to add insult to injury, just as I was about to go on interviews and try to finally get a new job, NEW JERSEY PROBATION CHILD SUPPORT, TOOK ALL OF MY SAVINGS OUT OF MY CHECKING ACCOUNT and gave it to my ex wife ( who immediately went on a month vacation to various places including the bahamas. ). This money had been lent to me last month to help survive while I finally got to look for a job!!! And to add even further insult to injury they are telling me that if any money goes into my checkings account they will take it and give it to my ex wife as a child support payment. SO ... They want child support from me ... Yet they dont' give me a chance to finally get back on my feet and get a job so that I can pay child support. CAN I SUE THEM FOR THIS TYPE OF ENFORCEMENT????
Can you sue New Jersey Child Support For Cruel and Unusual Treatment
written by George Curington, December 04, 2014
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