Question:
I divorced 4 years ago in Florida. The court at this time as well as our lawyers never asked for child support. With this being the case, my ex-wife and I decided that we will do that by ourselves. Today my ex-wife lives in Connecticut with my son and I live in Arkansas. Her salary is about $125,000.00/year when I am making $30,000/year (gross). I give her $200.00/month, but of course she is complaining about the cost of living, etc... What are my options in this case? I don't mind to give to my son, but I need to know a ball part. I can't afford a lawyer.
Answer:
I am not licensed in Florida. I would first recommend that you review your divorce decree. It should state why no child support was ordered. It is possible that no support was ordered because of the disparity of income between your income and that of your wife. If you are under no obligation to pay support then any money you give to your ex is a gift. If you want to determine how much support you should pay use an online calculator for Florida. Every state will calculate support differently. Again make sure there is no order of support. Track all money given to your ex as well. I would suggest consulting an attorney in Florida to review your divorce decree.
